"Both Sides" is the Way Out

"Both sides" thinking is the time-tested cure for contretemps, personal or political.

Step one: Refrain from shrieking like a stuck pig when you hear the phrase.

We need more bothsidesism...on both sides. That’s the only route back.

By turning our withering gaze on ourselves first, we start a process of transforming seeming-monsters back into friends and neighbors.